The girls (Jillian specifically) are becomming more open to trying to walk and stand on their own. Jillian especially is really working on mastering this new skill! Here is a video clip of her walking to Jared. Jenna, bless her heart! We are hoping she will be more interested in walking once she sees how much fun it is for her big sister. More to Come, Jessica
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Friday, April 9, 2010
Silly Girls
My Jenna Bean, happy as a clam :)
Jillian & Jenna
Jillian, look at those baby blues!
Jenna and Jillian, sweet blessings
Our best attempt at a family picture. :) Easter Sunday: Jessica, Jillian, Jared and Jenna
As you can see the girls are doing great! Jillian is starting to "talk" up a storm and is getting braver every day in her attempt to walk. Jenna is fascinated with objects around her, constantly pointing at things and asking in her baby way (typically a grunt) what they are.
The portraits (from the collage) were taken by a friend of mine from high school, Sara Barnes. I saw her a few years ago at a local bakery and at the time she was pregnant with twins. Naturally when I found out I was pregnant with twins as well I searched for her. Of course now it is much easier to find people with Facebook and Myspace. The hard part was remembering her married name. :) Once I found her I was thrilled to find out she too had twin girls. They are almost three and ADORABLE. We've had a playdate and I love watching her girls interact with each other and play off each others moods. Sara is also a good source of information.
Anyhoo, she is a very gifted photographer and she took some shots of the girls during our first playdate (her twins didn't come to that playdate, only Sona...her 5 month old who was around 3 months at the time!). I can't believe how amazing the pictures turned out (considering we had Lovies, pacifiers and sippy cups in the room) but really that just goes to show you what a talented photographer can capture. For those who are local I highly recommend Sara, the Wallflower Potographer, for your next pictures. :)
Oh! I figured it was about time to share some of our latest snap shots (sadly taken by me and not as cute as Sara's snapshots. CLICK HERE to view our latest photos on Snapfish and view all of the professional portraits of the girls. Remember...registration is free and you don't have to buy. Feel free to log on and look at what we've been up to with all the warm weather!
More to Come,
Jessica
Thursday, March 25, 2010
A Mother's Lament
Jillian (L) and Jenna eat their afternoon snack at their Big Girl Picnic Table. We can't wait to have snacks outside once the weather gets warmer and less windy.
You know the saying "children are a reflection of their parents?" Jared says the girls are spitting images of me; if that is true then I have to say I didn't realize how much of a goofy ham I was! (Hey....I heard that!!) I mean, I know toddlerhood is when children really start to observe and study people and things around them. Deciding upon preferences and learning mannerisms. I just had no idea toddlers could be so expressive.
Come over to our house and right away you will see Jillian constantly pulling faces. Big cheesy smiles, looks of shock and surprise, pouty lips that seem miles long. Jillian has obviously started to pick up on the body language and expressions of those around her. She is also very sensitive and concerned about others (mainly her sister since Jenna is her number one playmate). Many times when Jenna starts to cry Jillian will try and hand Jenna the nearest toy or pacifier to appease her; and whilst Jillian is learning to be an imitator of others, Jenna is learning how to be a completely separate and very independent person. Jenna is very happy-go-lucky but also very dramatic. Lots of little things make her angry and Jenna expresses her anger in a very unusual way...her tummy! When she gets mad she pushes her tummy out as far as it goes and screeches/grunts a bit. Not for very long mind you as she is easily distracted (thank goodness). Jenna usually has an item, destination or goal in mind and will let you know if you are blocking her path. Yet, Jenna is also very sweet and cuddly and out of two Jenna still likes to be held, kissed and cuddled more often than Jillian.
Jillian's surprise face (I promise it is a face and not just craming food into her mouth)
Jillian's cheesy smile
Something new being played out recently for both girls is an attachment to a caregiver and that caregiver is not me. Of course I am still Momma and I know that they know that. I will admit that this has been a struggle for me though as I assumed that the girls would cling to me since I am their primary care giver. You may or may not be surprised to find the girls first preference of persons to be with is their Grammy (Mary- my mom-in-law). Followed very closely by Jared and then me. I truly am happy (and relieved) that the girls love Mary so much. Not that I was afraid they wouldn't love her (of course they would) but it makes for much easier drop offs at her home twice a week; however, if I am being honest it does hurt a little (alright...a lot!) when I return to pick them up and they very clearly want nothing to do with me. It is no different at home as both make their preferences known for Daddy.
At first I was really worried that the girls didn't like me for some reason. I mean...I AM the mom so that goes without saying the hard stuff is done by me. The medicine, the nose and face cleaning, getting dressed and undressed, etc. I was worried that maybe I was turning into the bad guy and Jared was the fun guy. This week I started to scour the internet for some articles and advice. I read several articles and even asked my pediatrician at our 15 month (yes, that's right! can you believe they are 15 months??) check up about it and pretty much all of the information was the same. At this age toddlers form attachments to very specific people or things. Why they choose those people or things you don't know, but most often it is a phase and their attachment will change with time. My favorite article (the one that made me feel better) explained it like this: Toddlers focus on very few achievements and milestones at one time. If the child is learning to walk then they put all other learning goals aside and focus only on walking, often not using other milestones they've already mastered. Once the new milestone is achieved they go back to the skill they put on hold. For example, Baby Jane focuses is learning to say Bye-Bye. She finally learned it and has been using it for weeks. Then, her mom notices that Baby Jane has completely stopped saying Bye-Bye (like she forgot how to do it) but notices a week later that Baby Jane has learned how to grab a toy while standing. Once Baby Jane has mastered grabbing toys while standing she starts saying Bye-Bye again and both milestones are used regularly. Well, the doctor in this article said family members are treated exactly the same. The baby can only intently focus on person at a time. They study this persons mannerisms, expressions, words. While they are studying this person (whether it is a mom, dad, grandparent, sibling, caregiver, etc.) they have an attachment and preference to be with this person. Eventually the child learns enough about this person to begin studying someone else and thus their attachment transfers.
I don't know...that doctor's theory could be a bunch of bull honkey...I just know it makes me feel better about the fact that my girls want to be with other people more than they want to be with me. So for now I am still being the mom I know how to be. I remind myself that I am their mother and I know they love me and want to be with me (especially if I am the only one home or if we are in a place where they don't know anyone else). So in the meantime I will hide my disappointment and encourage the relationships they are building with others....and then I will go home and pray like crazy things change soon! If any moms out there (or dad's too) have a story about their toddler preferring someone other than you I would love to hear about it. Especially the parts on how long the phase lasted and if there was anything you did that helped.
Jenna sits on her bench nice and tall
Jenna's pretty smile
In other news the girls are healthy and still growing. Baby sister Jenna is now the bigger twin weighing in at 20.4 pounds and measuring 30 inches. Jillian is right behind her though at 19.14 pounds and 28 inches. Both girls have cut one top tooth and according to the pediatrician have at least 3-4 teeth each still trying to break thru. Neither baby is walking yet and neither has taken any independent first steps but they are getting better at standing for a few seconds without holding on to something and are great at walking with someone or with a push toy supporting them. They will also let you prop them up against something (like the back of the couch) and they will throw themselves forward so you can catch them. They think they are walking...they are lucky I am there to catch them from diving nose first into the floor.
More to Come,
Jess
Jenna and Jillian love to read books
Jenna and Jillian are getting their "rock" on
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Jenna likes to help mommy with laundry
Jillian takes a bath like a big girl
Jillian (pink bow) and Jenna (yellow bow) play with their Big Girl toy
The girls have gotten even more attached to their Lovies. Jenna has spotted her Lovie in her crib and works on getting it out. Jenna especially seems to have a "relationship" with her Lovie. She cuddles it and presses it to her face. She kissies it and sniffs it. She even sucks on the ends of the cloth. I have no idea where she gets that from.
Jillian and Shelby are up to no good
Jenna is upset because I am taking her picture instead of holding her.
So we compromise and I sit down so Jenna can climb up
Recently the babies have been revisiting their old toys. Jillian has become fascinated with her baby swing. Don't ask me....
Jenna as well decided that the baby toys aren't so bad, here she sits in her baby seat reading a Big Girl book
I can't believe how long the girls' hair has gotten! Jillian above and Jenna below model their hair after Mommy did a blow drying treatment. :)
Goodness Gracious! Where does the time go? I can't believe it has been almost three weeks since my last post. To make up for my lack of communication I've tried to post a lot of the latest pictures...which honestly have all been taken in the last three or four days. Let's see...since we've last talked we finally got rid of that pesky stomach bug. Jillian seemed to bounce back right away but it took poor Jenna almost two full weeks to recover. I even took her to the doctor at one point thinking perhaps she was anemic (we stopped iron supplements for her about two months ago and we've been watching her very closely for signs of anemia). She was very pale, had a very poor appetite and seemed very tired. She was playing but usually in just one spot without moving much and she would lay down every now and then to rest. The doctor did an in-office iron test as well as a full blood panel (anyone ever had to hold their toddler down while nurses draw blood? not a fun experience!) and all her results were normal. The doctor said that some babies were hit harder with the bug and with luck she would bounce back to normal within a few weeks.
Well, bounce back she did...all the way into the dark world of teething, taking Jillian with her. Somehow I had a feeling that this time would come. Not the teething of course, that is expected for any child...but one of the thoughts I had when I found out I was pregnant with two babies was that they would both get a BUNCH of teeth all at the same time. Perhaps my premonition was the Lord giving me a warning of what was to come (most likely so that I could fall at His feet asking for patience as well as healing for my babies) because the girls are now in FULL BLOWN teething mode from the looks of their swollen gums. I am guessing Jilly and Jenna can each expect to welcome 2-4 new teeth in the next month, if not more. Jillian already has one top tooth breaking the surface. Part of me hates to admit that I'm a little relieved that they are finally getting more teeth. Up until now we still only had two teeth (bottom teeth) each. Most kiddos have 5 or 6 chompers by the time they are Jillian and Jenna's age.
My mom always said that one of the first questions she wanted to ask God when she got to Heaven was, "Why do babies have to hurt so much when they are teething?" I would be curious to know the answer... the girls have been running fevers and they both have runny noses. They are irritable and sensitive and both are very clingy. It is almost like I have two extra appendages permanently attached to my body. It seems as though the teething has caused one other major problem as well...sleeplessness. Whereas before the girls were in bed by 7:30 and asleep by 7:45 at the latest, snoozing until at least 7am and sometimes until 7:30, now they are restless and still awake late into the evening. I went to bed last night at 9:30 and both girls were still awake. Jared and I have had to start separating them again at night to get them asleep; this is something we haven't had to do since they were about 9 months old. And it isn't like the babies are waking up later in the morning, making up for a late night. If anything they are waking up earlier now, especially Jillian. Which only adds to the irritability, crankiness, sensitivity, etc, etc.
I am praying that the teeth come in quickly so that we can all get back to normal (I would settle for normal-ish). I am ready for my darling girls to be the happy-go-lucky babies they once were. Until then, I will continue in my motherly duties to soothe, cuddle, hug, hold, kiss, love on and play with my girls; which is a blessing I am thankful for every hour, minute and second of each and every day.
More to Come,
Jessica
Saturday, February 20, 2010
What in Heaven's Name?!?
What in the world is wrong with my child's hair? Every time Jillian wakes up from a nap (or in the morning) I wonder what her hair will look like. Now, in case you are joining us for the first time...I have two children. Most of the time I am blessed that they take naps and sleep at the same time. Usually not for the same length of time but that is a different post. So...if I have two children who nap at the same time why does one child wake up with the hair I put her down with and the other wake up with...this....?? I am just sayin'!
Jillian's hair after her nap
Jenna's hair compared to Jillian's after they both took a nap
Jillian is back to her regular groomed self as she and Jenna play
Jenna is giving you a big ol' kiss!
In other news, this week we've been battling the stomach bug. Jenna woke up late Monday night and was sick until Tuesday morning. We've been working on getting her eating habits back to normal ever since. Some days she eats great and some days (like last night) she doesn't want anything to do with her food and will throw a tantrum until we take her tray away.
Jillian started getting sick right after we put the girls to bed Thursday night. Thankfully she only got sick for a few hours so we weren't up all night like with Jenna. And Jillian was pretty much right back to eating her normal amounts of food the next morning. I held off on milk until today but otherwise she seems to be back on track.
Jared and I are praying we don't get sick and I am also praying Jenna doesn't get sick again and start repeating the cycle. It is impossible to separate their germs. They are constantly stealing each other's pacifiers, sippy cups, food, and toys.
I am glad this has happened though. The stomach bug has been going around for weeks now and I have just been dreading getting it. Not only because in my opinion that is the worse kind of sickness to get... ever and I would rather have a cold for weeks than a few hours of vomiting; but I also hate it just because of the physical reaction I get when someone is vomiting. So at this moment I have to stop and acknowledge that other than Jenna's first episode where I had to leave the room, I was a trooper and I am kind of proud of myself. I was right there, patting their backs, changing them and cleaning off the sickness. Also, the more we went along the less physical reaction I had. I don't usually pat myself on the back but this was a BIG DEAL for me. I always say that part of the reason I waited longer to have kiddos was that I knew there would be throw up moments that I didn't think I could handle it. Well...I handled them. :) Not that I want the stomach bug to come back, no siree! I am just glad to know that I can be there for my babies when they need me the most. It is a good feeling to have.
More to Come,
Jessica
Friday, February 12, 2010
Geaux Saints!!
Jared and Jenna, Mommy and Jilly cheering the Saints to Victory!
The past week hasn't changed much around the Winter household. The girls are growing bigger every day. Jillian especially is getting better with the tilt action required by a normal sippy cup. The girls are also getting more physical every day. I caught Jillian sitting in one of the toy boxes the other day...which means she had to climb in it all by herself since I was in the nursery changing Jenna's diaper. Both girls are cruising the furniture like crazy. Last night Jillian finally figured out how to walk behind a push toy. She had always been to scared to do it by herself and last night she was walking all over the nursery and playroom with me trailing behind trying to keep up. She isn't a very good driver yet and kept running into things. It was pretty funny because she would get mad and she couldn't figure out why she was stuck!
We had an awesome Super Bowl shindig last weekend, made super duper fun by the Saints' glorious win over the Colts. WHOODAT?!? The girls looked way cute in their Saints gear!
So until there is more news I will leave you with a handful of the latest pictures.
More to Come,
Jessica
Jenna gets fired up before the Big Game
Jillian takes a spin on her car
Jenna's turn to take a ride
Both Jenna and Jillian are finally starting play with toys...rather than just eating and throwing them. They love their Caterpillar slide but haven't figured out yet that not everything can go down it. :)
Jenna reads Daddy The Hungary Caterpillar story
Jillian is learning that walking may not be so bad after all.
What dinner looks like at the Winter house. Steamed carrots, Cheesy Tuna Noodle Casserole and Cooked Apples with Cinnamon. Yum!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
We're Putting Shelby the Dog on a Diet
Jillian enjoys an after dinner treat
Jenna trying to figure out how to eat her popsicle
Jilly and Jenna can't decide if the yummy taste of the popsicle outweighs the extreme cold. I tried to show them how to hold the popsicle by the stick but they got mad every time I tried to help.
The last time I left you the girls were digging into the new table foods; inhaling every bite. The excitement with real food has been replaced with a fascination to see what happens to the food every time it gets dropped on the floor. Simple answer...Shelby eats it. Somehow the dog eating food on the floor is extremely entertaining. Especially for Jillian...that crazy girl dropped her entire plate over the side of her chair tonight.
Fortunately for us, as long as what is dropped isn't a vegetable, Shelby the Dog will eat it. She got lucky tonight with some very nice chicken. I still wish Shelby would have learned to point or howl at poo diapers so I wouldn't have to be the one to take the sniff test, but I will settle for Shelby being my trusty broom and mop. :) I just may need to get the pooch out for a walk or two though...she's getting a bit hefty.
More To Come,
Jess
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