Phew...What a Week!

(From top to bottom: Aunt Katie with Jenna, Aunt Katie with Jillian (both taken on 3/17) Jenna at one day old and Jillian at one day old.)

Phew! What a week it has been, and it is only Wednesday. We have had something going on everyday this week and tomorrow, Thursday, is the only day where something is not scheduled. Whether it is church, doctors, family, etc...there has just been something every day. Which almost made me overlook the fact that the girls will be 3 months old on Friday. They aren't typical three month olds. They still weigh less that some newborn babies and that is really still what they are. Their adjusted age will be one month. According to the pediatrician and the neonatologist, their age will be adjusted until around 2 1/2 or 3 which is when Jillian and Jenna will catch up with the kids their same age.

Just to give you a run down, here are some of the differences between my 3 month olds and the typical 3 month old.

Typical Weight: 13 pounds average/ Jillian and Jenna: aprox 8 pounds

Typical Length: 24 inches/ Jillian and Jenna: 20 inches

Typical Milestones: (taken from http://www.yourbabytoday.com/features/dev_threemonth/index.html )

• Your baby can bring his hands together.
  With a mighty effort, baby can raise his chest, supported by his arms, when he lies on his stomach.
• Baby can roll over (one way).
• He reaches for objects.
• Baby can put some weight on his legs when you hold him upright.
• He makes sounds like "ah goo."
• Baby laughs out loud.
• He squeals when he's happy.
• Baby smiles spontaneously.
• He can focus on very small objects.
• Baby turns toward the sound of a familiar voice.
• Finally: a little predictability! Because your baby's nervous system is maturing as well, his internal clock is becoming better regulated. More-established patterns are surfacing; the baby's eating and sleeping habits now are more likely to fit into a routine. You'll also notice less crying. How nice!

Jillian and Jenna:

• They have no controlled movement and are not yet batting at objects (2 month milestone)
• They can turn their head from side to side while on their tummy with great effort and can lift it slightly
• Head is not in the middle but turned to one side or the other
• Cries at loud noises
• Listens to speech
• Has the reflexive grasping of hands or anything that touches their palms

Basically, they still look at act like newborns. It will probably we another 2 months before they start acting and looking like active babies instead of newborns. But....they have come a long, long way from where they started so in the big picture they are doing very well.

I know sometimes the blog makes it sounds like they are nothing but crabby...when really they are actually quite good and most of the time easy to please. They have their fussy moments which seem to stand out quite a lot (especially at night) but really they are lovely and I love them more than I could ever imagine.

More to come...

Jessie

Can Jilly & Jenna Come Out to Play?

Jillian

Jenna (the pink sheet protector she is laying on is clean, I promise!)

Everyone tells me that I should be happy the babies sleep so much now, "Enjoy it while you can! Soon you will be wishing they would sleep more while you are running after two mobile babies." Well, that may be and if so I will be the first to let you know; however, in the meantime...I'm bored!! I want these babies to wake up so that they will smile and laugh with me. The only time they are awake it seems is to eat and then within 10 minutes after they're snoring again. I have never been so ignored in my life...and I am providing quality, top-notch entertainment right now!

Well, the other night (Thursday I think it was) the babies were both wide awake at about 8:30pm. Of course they did pick the most inopportune time, as that is when I make all of the bottles for the night and day ahead. Usually they are asleep at that time but I think they were both hungry. I shot this video of them. Couldn't get any smiles (I don't think they purposefully smile yet...everyone seems to think it is gas pains) but it is evidence that they are awake...at least for a very short time.

The other pictures are of them in their cute little bows. I couldn't help myself. :)

More to Come...

Jessica

Video Stars

So no news means things are the same. I still have totally confused crab apples on my hands at night and then content sleepy babies during the day. Most of the time the girls go to bed by 9:30pm and generally wake up on their own to eat at around 1:30-2am. Then they think it is playtime after they are fed and cry on and off the rest of the night because they aren't being played with. Last night was the complete opposite. They woke up at about 12:30 crying and continued to cry on and off until about 1:45 (I didn't want to feed them at 12:30 because then they would wake up at like 4 to eat). After that I was worried they would stay awake again. Well, we rocked them for about 20 minutes and put them to bed wide awake. I guess they didn't fuss because the next thing I know it is 6:00am and time to get up and feed them again. Now, if we could just marry the side before 2 to the side after 2 it would be a perfect night. The girls are still a little young to be sleeping all night yet but I would at least like some rest in between the one feeding. :)

Here is another video. I tried to get them to wake up for all of you but no such luck. Maybe they are camera shy:)

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More to Come...

Jessie

It's Been Challenging

Jillian (L) and Jenna (R) who are asleep but supposed to be awake. Now that they have to be upright after feedings it is a lot harder to keep them awake. Being on their backs and looking at toys was more interesting than sitting in some plushy seats. :)

The last week has been quite a challenge and I am hoping this week we can get back on track with being happy and sleeping at night again....they had been doing so well!

Let's see...it all started last week when I gave the girls a different brand of the premature formula they are on. We use Similac Neosure and our doctor's office had given us a sample of the Enfamil (they get free samples all the time and were trying to help us with the cost...the premature formula is a tad expensive). Well, after an entire day of using that formula Jenna ended up getting sick at 6:00 Wednesday night. It was a cross between a very forceful spit up and the projectile vomiting. Basically, all of what she had just eaten came up.

So, I ran to Wal-Mart and got more of the Neosure and threw out the Enfamil. I called the doctor and she said just to watch her and see how it goes, sometimes that just happens. Well, all the other feedings went fine and I figured it was no big deal.

The next morning at 9 I fed them and got them ready to go and visit my friends where I used to work. As soon as I got them into the car they both did the throw up thing again. So, I figured maybe it was just their system trying to get rid of the other formula still. Nope, Jenna got sick again at the Noon. So, I called the doctor and she said it could be from the congestion they still have (we are suffering from allergies....anyone else?) or it could be a touch of the stomach bug. They told me to reduce their feeding amount to half but feed more often. So, I cut back to 1.5 ounces every two hours instead of 3 ounces every 3. I also had to supplement with Pedialyte. Not fun!! Have you ever had to feed a hungry baby half of what they are used to? They were quite upset with me.

Well, we did that for a day and since they didn't get sick we gradually went back to the 3 ounces every three hours, stretching it at night to just one feeding instead of two. Then the time changed. That threw us off as well as the fact that we just had a plain busy weekend. So, yesterday, I figured we would work on getting back to their schedule.

Well, Sunday, Jillian seemed to be spitting up a lot...more than usual. Both girls were also pretty gassy because all of the changes through off their system and they got a tiny bit constipated. On Monday morning (yesterday), Jillian did the throw up thing again with her milk. By now, we had been on our old 3 ounces schedule for a few days. I knew it wasn't a bug because the girls didn't have fever, chills, messy diapers, etc.

So, I called the doctor again yesterday and we started going over how they eat. They usually get really fussy after they eat and a lot times they arch their backs and cry like their tummies are really hurting when we are trying to burp them. So, the doctor said it sounds like they have a case of Acid Reflux and they called in a prescription for us. I have to give it to both girls 2x a day a half hour before they eat. I also have to keep them upright for half an hour after I feed them before putting them back to bed or laying them down.

I started the medicine this morning (I think I got maybe a 1/4 of the amount in them that they were supposed to have) so I am hoping it will start to work and help their tummies. I also think it will help with sleeping at night because they can sleep from about 9:30 (after we feed them) until about 2 with no problems and then after we feed them at 2 they get cranky again like they have tummy aches.

Anyhoo, only time will tell and for now we are just like Thomas the Train chanting "We think we can, we think we can, we think we can." In a few months when we start going back down this hard hill we are climbing I am sure it will change to "I knew we could, I knew we could, I knew we could."

More to Come...

Jess

Cute as a Button...or a Doll!

It has been kind of a tough week. Both girls were feeling puny with allergies earlier this week and then both have had some kind of stomach thing the last day and a half. I think both ailments are on the way out but until then we are going through some "crankys." Today, Jillian was feeling much better and was acting playful again. Shelby kept getting in the way and I was afraid she would accidentally step on Jillian. So...I put Jillian in her toy box. It was too cute so I had to take a picture. She sat in there for about a minute and then decided she wanted to come out. It was cute while it lasted. Hey, I have to have some fun you know!! The entertainment can't be all for the babies, I would never stay awake. :)

More to Come...

Jessie

You Live and You Learn

Well, you live and you learn. Today I went to my doctor's office for a postpartum checkup again...I took my sister, Teri, with me since I had both babies. My doctor's office is VERY small and would not fit the double stroller. I can't carry too car seats (I can barely carry one) so she lovingly agreed to come with me and help out. Plus, the girls either have allergies or a little cold because the last few days they have been congested and not feeling well and therefore slightly cranky.

So, the appointment was going well. I was asking Dr. Wilson to check the fraternal vs. identical results when all of the sudden my sister exclaims, "Jessica! Jillian is dripping poo on the floor!." Okay, maybe I need to backup for this to make sense. I had both girls in the car seats and they were doing great, we were just waiting for the doctor to come in so we could chat and then go. A few minutes after we got into the room Jillian started to get fussy so we took her out and Teri was going to hold her. She wouldn't calm down so I held her (doctor wasn't in yet). All of the sudden you hear the unmistakable sounds of Jillian "doing her thing." Well, I know the diaper we have on is a good one (not Huggies!!!) and Dr. Wilson just walked in so I decided to wait and change her after the appointment was over. I was standing up rocking Jillian a little when the poo starts to leak. It leaked on her, me the floor. It was disgusting, really it was.

So, I start to clean up his floor and then Jillian as the doctor and I are finishing our conversation. There is poo all over her outfit and it is not wearable anymore. Well, silly me... being a first time mom... I don't have any extra clothes to change her into. So, Jillian went home from my doctor's appointment in a clean diaper wrapped in her blanket and Jenna's (Jenna had clothes so I figured she wouldn't mind sharing her blankie with her sissy) in her birthday suit. :)

I put a change of clothes for both babies that will stay in the bag now as soon as I got home. :) No more naked babies on my watch, no sirree.

Something interesting to note: The girls may be identical. During all of this fiasco I was having Dr. Wilson check our results of the placenta dissection again because 1) the girls look so darn similar (yes I know they are twins but the same hair, eyes, figures, noses?? Come on!) and 2) they have the same birthmark on the back of their head in the exact same spot and everything. Well, he said there is a 70% chance they are fraternal and 30% chance they are identical. He also said that is they have the same blood types than the likelihood they are identical increases. Both girls have O+ blood according the the paperwork I have from Cooks. So, once I have the money I am going to have DNA tests done on them. There are companies I found on the Internet that send DNA kits and you do the swab and then send it back. They compare the samples and then get your results back to you in about 2 weeks or so. Prices range from $99 to $200 which seems kind of expensive for one test; but...I need to know a definite or its going to drive me crazy for the rest of my life. :)

More To Come; but until then enjoy a little video I took of the girls during playtime...

Jessica

Jenna and Jillian are wide awake! :) The sleeping schedule is getting much better and (knock-on-wood) both babies seem to have their nights and days sorted. The pediatrician also said we could lengthen the time between deep night feedings so we are now on a 6am, 9, 12, 3, 6 and 2am schedule. :) Getting up once instead of twice is very nice! Hopefully in April we can talk about extended night schedules where we don't have to get them up at all. Until then, I will enjoy what we have.